I like moderately slender women, but I am also quite okay with fat women. My ex-wife was obsessed with thinness, was on all sorts of diets, and was constantly irritated and dissatisfied. I asked her a hundred times a day if she had lost any weight at all.
The fact that she ate little and only salads, I was not much worried at first, I thought that for a long time it would not be able to, hunger will make her eat normally. What annoyed me the most was that my wife didn’t cook, so there was no temptation for her. I was forced to eat at the cafe when I was at work and cook for myself in the evening. My wife would lock herself in her room so she wouldn’t hear the smell of fried potatoes. Then all night long she was in no mood. It pissed her off that I could eat and not get fat. But my job is not in an office, but at a construction site, so everything is consumed, not put off.
I suggested that she also run in the morning or sign up for fitness, but my wife said that she was tired at work and had no energy to exercise. Naturally, no energy if you eat like that! Once said that you can eat everything, but a little bit at a time, and walk more on the weekends, buy bikes to burn calories. But it wasn’t like that. She didn’t even want to hear about kids, said she wasn’t going to ruin her waistline, and that all her friends gained a lot of weight after giving birth.
This went on for five years, then I suggested that we part, especially since I had already met someone else and did not want to deceive my wife. And the reason was the words of his ex-wife: “If you loved me, you would have supported me and ate with me, but to spite me fried chops, when I can not eat them. But why not? Did the doctor forbid it? If so, if it was a health problem, I could understand it. But she wanted to look like a model. I replied that the beauty requires sacrifice, and I’m a man and can not be hungry. Especially since I’m used to a normal breakfast, lunch and dinner, as it was in my parents’ family. I like meat and fish, not salads. Where do I get my strength for hard work, from greens or apples?
Married for the second time. My wife is not thin, but she’s not fat either. I do not pay much attention to this, the main thing is that she takes care of herself, is well-groomed, and we have the same views on life. We are planning a child. A real family, not every man for himself.
