We were discussing with colleagues in the office the story of how a girl had stolen a man from his family. Women over 40 fiercely condemned this very mistress, arguing that she had hurt her wife and children. How can it be, to leave children without a father!
And I sincerely wonder why this same mistress should not think about herself, but about a woman who is not her own, and about some hypothetical children, whom she has never even seen. She should be thinking about her happiness, about her comfort. If a man doesn’t worry about his own children, about how they will grow up without a father, why should another woman think about that? He thinks he can leave his own children to his wife, he doesn’t worry about their mental and emotional state, he doesn’t think about how his wife will live. So why should a mistress think about all this!
When I said that, all the women turned on me. But I am sure that if the husband leaves the family, it means he feels bad and uncomfortable there, it means he feels bad there and no longer holds anything back. Men do not leave good families where there is love, harmony and comfort. And it’s up to the woman to create all this! And it is more for the wife to blame for not being able to create the kind of family atmosphere that should be there. And don’t say what a bad mistress a woman is, for taking her husband and father out of the family. Men are not puppies who are unwilling puppies who are picked up and carried away. He makes his own decision to leave or not. And if he doesn’t want to, no mistress can take him away. So there is nothing, no love, no passion, no common interests, no hobbies, no understanding, no warmth of mind, no coziness. And this is clearly not the fault of the mistress.
I believe that the husband and wife should think about their family, not some strangers. The mistress does everything right, if she feels good and comfortable with this man, then she makes sure he stays with her forever.
One co-worker called me an evil woman. But now I am in my second marriage, in the first my husband was taken away from me. And ispovedi.com I believe that then, in my younger years, I did a lot of wrong things that led to the departure of my husband. It was my own fault and definitely not my mistress’s. Not her, so another could have been in her place.
My second husband was stolen from me before I was married, and that was my fault too, and then, many years later, I got him back. But that’s another life story…
