I got a new job, and while I was getting used to the staff, I noticed a colleague I really liked. She turned out to be from my hometown and we often went there together. I started to like her from the conversations on the road, it was that spark. At work, we started exchanging glances and communicating more intimately, but…
A young man came to work with us, to whom my object of sympathy switched – she almost hung on his neck and showed open signs of sympathy. Everyone, of course, saw it, my new colleague saw it too, but he somehow didn’t care, even though he was single. Most likely, she was not his type. But the girl is still crazy about him, also shows sympathy for him, but the ardor has diminished.
And then recently I was attacked by depression, because I can not declare my love for the object of my affection, because in the case of rejection, I have to see her at work every day. I am constantly nervous about ispovedi.com rejection, and a very good communication with her would go down the drain if I confess.
My coworker, after finding out I was depressed, decided to get me out at night and talk and break up my ennui. We talked about everything, but I never told her the reason for my bad mood. There were a few moments when I almost confessed my feelings to her, but something stopped me. In the end, we hugged each other in the morning and broke up.
After those conversations our communication has moved to a new level: we communicate very closely, at work she kind of started to flirt with me, and kind of not, but she also continues to be crazy about our new colleague.
And here is the question: are we both idiots or am I a wimp who is afraid to reveal her feelings? And in the case of rejection, there’s no telling what to do. Maybe someone can tell me how to check my coworker’s feelings for me for sure?
