My brother got married with a bang in 2014. Dad and mom raised their daughter-in-law, fully provided college tuition and a bachelor’s degree paid for, and now provide for their grandchildren in full. My parents’ health is of no concern to my brother in any way. All he thinks about is his mother-in-law, her and his daughter-in-law’s health. It is 3.5 years since my daughter-in-law went to earn a separate place to live separately, but there is a “but” – my brother wants to live with my mom and dad together.
Only the daughter-in-law is against it, she also does not want to take on the responsibilities, as a mother does not take care of the children. Two children (the eldest is 7 years old, the middle girl is 6 years old, living with us, the youngest child is brought up by his mother-in-law).
How to be, I do not even know. She does not understand words, she does not want to go back to the house. My sister-in-law did not give anything before, we sisters and parents watched every child day and night. There is no respect for parents, no gratitude when mom and dad completely provide for the grandchildren and pay for all the clubs.
Dad and mom don’t want to lose their brother and help them because of that. Mom’s health ispovedi.com too, she doesn’t have surgery very soon, and he only cares about his mother-in-law. Every time he says that she has pressure, and she sits with the youngest, and the fact that our parents take his kids to kindergarten and school in the morning and take them back, then take them to classes, he does not appreciate it. My sister-in-law lives there only for herself, she buys clothes, and she doesn’t think about the children. They understand that their mother doesn’t think about them either. Every time they play with their cousins, my brother’s middle girl says, “I put up with mom not being there.” The older one either doesn’t draw Mom in his family drawings, or puts her at the very end.
I don’t know what to do. They don’t want to take their children to another city. I live with them, as well as my mom and dad. Dad has joint problems. How can I make my brother see not only his wife and mother-in-law, but also my mom and dad and worry about them and take care of them?
The bank has already turned them down several times, because his sister-in-law ispovedi.com every week to take installments on a large amount of clothes. And he doesn’t understand that.
