I’ve been dating a guy for 2 years, we’re 30 years old and we don’t live together. He offered to rent an apartment a year and a half ago, pay 50/50, but then he started saying he couldn’t save up. This went on for a few months. Eventually we decided to put off renting for a while.
At the same time I was still saving for an apartment and he was living on his own and waiting for me to buy us an apartment.
We meet in parks, or I decide about the apartment – I rent it for a day (we pay 50/50), or I ask a friend to let me have an apartment for the day. If I don’t decide for myself where to spend our time, then we will only go for a walk in the park.
Lately he has even started paying only for himself if we order something from the food. He earns less than I do, but he doesn’t want to change his job.
Very often he says that he only wants me, shares his plans about starting a family, that he wants two children, that we will live together, get married, etc. But when I ask, when ispovedi.com it all going to happen? When will the relationship develop, because we are already 30? He says that he has a great desire to start a family with me, but he doesn’t know when it will be, but he will for sure. When I propose to part, because I understand that he only feeds me with breakfasts, he begins to confess his love and promise again that everything will be.
He is a very kind, non-conflictual person, he always misses me and says he loves me. I understand that we have no future, he really does nothing for that. He doesn’t want to break up at all, he is very attached to me. And I don’t know how I can leave him painlessly.
