My story is about my husband’s lies. When we first met, he left his main job and got a job in a completely different profession and structure. I was very proud of that, because not everyone can change their comfort zone and start doing something they really like.
About a year went by. We got married, I got pregnant and started noticing that we were having some money problems. I bring my share of money, put it in the piggy bank, so to speak, spending on household, groceries and other things, and my husband started saving. I think maybe he’s saving up for something.
I decided to have this conversation. It turned out that there were some changes in salary at work and it was necessary to tighten the belt. If it’s necessary, it’s not a problem.
Time passes, my tummy grows, the money still does not come. I begin to bring up the fact that there will be a baby and you need to prepare to spend, now we live on my salary, but then it will be difficult.
And then it turns out that since we met, he hasn’t worked at all! Driving around on his own business during “work hours,” ispovedi.com and money was given to him by his mom, and plus credit cards be damned.
I can understand why he lied when he met him – he didn’t want to fall in the dirt, but the lie dragged on. He got bogged down in those lies and couldn’t get out. I love him very much, and he loves me, I know, but how can you love and at the same time lie to the woman you love about your idleness? And how could his mother encourage all this and feed him with money?
I don’t understand what to do in this situation. Either help him out of this hole, or send him away with his spineless mother and rely only on himself?
